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Dopamine Bluntly Coached

The Thing About Dopamine

I wish people would realize that all of the knowledge resulted from “Dopamine Rush.” In essence, when folx with ADHD traits get super interested in a particular topic, idea, task, problem, or thought, we learn everything there is to know about that thing. 
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Bluntly Coached Blog

4 Ways to Help Your Teen Deal With Life - yep, they have a life.

Acknowledging what and how your teenager is feeling require you to be in-tuned with your own emotions. Rather than trying to insert your opinion into the conversation when your teenager talk to you, practice listening.
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Ganiyat Badmus Bluntly Coached Friendship

Stop Turning Your BFFs Into Emotional Dumpsters: A Thought-Provoking Perspective.

It is great to have a friend or friends that you can turn to for moral support, but you should not be blowing your friends phone up all the time because you’ve got some problems.
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ganiyat badmus; bluntly coached

Talking To Men About Parenting Got Me Thinking Like - What??

He topped it all off by saying "I don't like being a dad to anyone. If I can do it over, I will opt for no wife and zero children." As soon as he said that, he caught himself and said, "that makes me sound like a bad person- I am sorry, but some days are rough."
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Bluntly Coached; Failure; Ganiyat Badmus

3 Logical Ways to Move Forward After a Failure

Some deal with the past by ruminating endlessly about what they could have done differently while some act as if it never happened. Both of the aforementioned coping strategies are on extreme sides of the pendulum. Success, progress, forgiveness, and acceptance comes from somewhere in-between.
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4 Tips to Help You Reflect on Your Life Without Beating Yourself Down Too Much

4 Tips to Help You Reflect on Your Life Without Beating Yourself Down Too Much

This time, it is perfectly okay to chastise yourself for all those stupid and misguided decisions that you have made throughout the year....Take credit for the goodness in your life as much as you take credit for the foolery you were involved with.
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Bluntly Coached; Protect your child; Ganiyat Badmus

6 Ways to Protect Your Child From Sexual Abuse During the Holidays

You know uncle Tom is "touchy", but somehow you still feel obligated to invite him for Christmas because "he is family". Well, I call BS. Family or not, if you have presented as a potential pig towards adults or children, you are not invited to my home.
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Sex First, Questions Later | A Generational Dysfunction

Sex First, Questions Later | A Generational Dysfunction

This idea of "sex first, questions later" is really incomprehensible. How did the last three to four generations get so screwed up? You definitely cannot blame it on our forefathers and mothers because they had values and respect.
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